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On this bonus episode of SLP Espresso Discuss, Hallie shares the second that fully modified how she approached working with older college students – when one small connection turned reluctant teenagers into prepared contributors. She dives into how that have impressed Chapter 7 of her new ebook, The Secondary SLP Roadmap, and why constructing rapport isn’t further… It’s EVERYTHING. In the event you’ve ever questioned easy methods to get buy-in out of your college students or make remedy an area they really look ahead to, this one’s for you.
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Here is what we discovered:
- Connection comes earlier than correction – Rapport is the true place to begin.
- Belief makes college students extra prepared to attempt, fail, and check out once more.
- Small moments of authenticity construct massive buy-in.
- You possibly can construct relationships and meet objectives… It’s not both/or.
- When college students really feel secure, actual progress follows.
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00:00:00 Hallie: Hey there SLP, I’ve a fast query for you. What when you might have only one ebook in your shelf that truly will get the challenges of working with center faculty and highschool college students? Effectively, it is right here. Effectively, truly the pre-order is right here, however hey, I am so excited to let you recognize that my model new ebook, The Secondary SLP Information is obtainable for pre-order. And once you pre-order, you get an unique bonus that you just will not wanna miss.
00:00:31 Hallie: It’s filled with actual discuss methods, fast suggestions and inspiration that you should utilize along with your center faculty and highschool college students all yr lengthy. That is the right ebook for a ebook membership, a grad scholar group, or simply flipping by means of once you’re caught and in a IEP writing spiral. So head to speechtimefun.com/preorder or head to my Instagram and ship me a DM with the phrase pre-order and I’ll ship you the hyperlink so you’ll be able to pre-order now. And I can’t wait so that you can get your fingers on this ebook in November however the sooner you seize it the higher the bonus.
00:01:17 Hallie: Welcome to SLP Espresso Discuss, the podcast designed solely for speech language pathologists who work with older college students, grades 4 by means of 12. I’m your host, Hallie Sherman, your SLP behind Speech Time Enjoyable, the Speech Retreat Convention, and the SLP Elevate Membership. And I am thrilled to convey you conversations, methods, and insights that gives you the jolt of inspiration that you just want. Whether or not you are tuning in throughout your morning commute, on a break in between classes, and even throughout a well-deserved leisure time. I’m right here for you each week. Let’s do that SLPs.
00:01:57 Hallie: Hey, hey, and welcome to a different bonus episode of SLP Espresso Discuss, your secure area for a caffeinated connection, sensible suggestions, and speech remedy survival methods to your center faculty and highschool college students. And right here is one other bonus episode since my new ebook, The Secondary SLP Roadmap, is launching November eleventh. I am so, so, so excited so that you can get your fingers on it. So I will be speaking at present all a few phrase that will get thrown round loads, the phrase rapport.
00:02:28 Hallie: Everyone knows it issues. We have heard we have to construct rapport with our college students. However what does it truly imply? And the way will we construct it with our college students who’ve already determined that faculty and doubtless speech, or possibly the reverse, speech and possibly faculty, is just not their factor? So at present I am gonna be diving into actual life tales, methods, and some cringing moments that I’m going rather more deeper into in chapter seven of my ebook, Secondary SLP Roadmap, which by the way in which once more launches November eleventh. Let’s speak about how rapport could make or break our classes and easy methods to construct it with out giving up worthwhile remedy time.
00:03:07 Hallie: In keeping with the dictionary, rapport means an in depth and harmonious relationship during which the individuals or teams involved perceive one another’s emotions or concepts and talk it effectively. Discover something? Yup. The phrase talk is correct there within the definition. So we wish our college students to speak with us, to take dangers, to attempt new issues, open up, reply our questions, we now have to construct relationships that really feel secure, particularly with our secondary college students. These youngsters, they have been by means of some stuff, tutorial struggles, repeated failures, most likely even years of speech remedy that did not really feel useful, and even worse, felt embarrassing. They usually discovered easy methods to masks, keep away from, deflect, and shut down. Rapport is what provides them the permission to cease surviving and begin collaborating.
00:04:07 Hallie: So I am gonna inform you a quick story that I’m going rather more deep in depth in chapter seven. About my first yr working in a highschool, I used to be in my early 20s, barely 5 toes tall, and I used to be continually being requested for a corridor move as a result of nobody knew who I used to be as a result of I used to be solely in that faculty for 3 durations of the day and I seem like a scholar and let’s be actual. Nobody within the constructing knew who I used to be and I used to be terrified. Okay. These college students have been a lot taller than me.
00:04:33 Hallie: Anyway, the scholars that got here to my speech room, they have been giving me main aspect eye. They did not need to be there. They have been considering extra about lunch and what they have been consuming and desirous to order their lunch and sneak away to the lavatory to take action. Something however working with me. After which in the future, one of many senior ladies observed my model new engagement ring. She lit up. For the primary time, she wished to speak to me. So I finished the boring worksheet I used to be forcing on them on the time and allow them to ask me questions. We talked. We laughed. And I promised them if we get by means of our work subsequent time, you’ll be able to ask me something once more. And it labored.
00:05:21 Hallie: And a quote from the ebook, “They have been excited to study extra. I noticed a shift in the way in which they got here to the next session. That second taught me one thing I am going to always remember. If you’d like college students to do laborious issues, they should know that you just care.” So there you will have it guys, rapport first, objectives second. Let’s be trustworthy, our college students are engaged on issues they typically wrestle with in entrance of their friends. That is susceptible. That’s laborious.
00:05:51 Hallie: If we bounce straight into objectives and skip the connection, we’re lacking the entire basis. We’re mainly saying to them, I want you to take a danger with somebody you do not know or belief. Rapport isn’t just one thing you do to start with of the varsity yr, these icebreakers. It is one thing it’s good to keep on and carry by means of all through the whole length of the time you are working with that scholar.
00:06:11 Hallie: Here is a quote from the ebook, “I get it. We have to work on objectives and need to doc them for billing functions, however our college students are extra vital. When your college students really feel secure with you, they’re going to be extra prepared to attempt, fail, and check out once more. Is not that what coming to speech remedy is all about?” Within the ebook, I truly, in chapter seven, I speak about a consolation contract. It is not a authorized doc. It is a dialog that you may have along with your college students to get them on board with working with you when issues are powerful, easy methods to really feel secure, what does respect seem like, what they need to do after they get one thing fallacious or when a peer does one thing fallacious. Okay?
00:06:56 Hallie: And the very best half about it’s you allow them to reply. You allow them to resolve. And I’m going by means of a complete bunch of prompts that you may ask your college students to construct this contract with them collectively. And a quote that I wrote from the ebook, “They wrote it. So remind them of the advantages of sticking to it. So when issues occur all year long, after they break the contract, you’ll be able to remind them.” It is not nearly setting the tone. You are giving them that possession that builds belief, that builds buy-in, and that builds rapport.
00:07:28 Hallie: I speak about one other story within the ebook about me bumping right into a scholar that I had years later and he remembered me. And it simply reveals you that when you will have that connection along with your college students, it is simply a tremendous feeling. Let’s bust a fantasy. Rapport constructing is just not a waste of time. If a session ends with 0% progress in direction of a purpose, however that scholar felt secure, engaged and empowered, that’s progress. You possibly can’t measure belief on an information sheet, however that is the bridge that may make remedy doable. Okay?
00:08:08 Hallie: I’m going within the ebook, I speak about totally different actions that you should utilize to work on speech objectives on the identical time, to not fear, however how to take action in a manner that’s straightforward to prep and simple to facilitate, equivalent to a energy strand, speak about well-known failures, actions to speak about development mindset. As a result of bear in mind, speech objectives are baked proper into these conversations, and you may flip any exercise right into a language or social ability alternative. You will get again to direct objectives quicker when your college students belief you.
00:08:42 Hallie: So you are able to do these items all year long. In the event you ever see your college students beginning to shift slightly bit or getting uneasy or much less motivated or much less prepared to take dangers, you’ll be able to take a pause and do these items. And that is why I share so many concepts within the ebook. Rapport is greater than only a starting of the yr icebreaker. It is not fluff, it is not a waste of time. It is the muse for all the things that we do, particularly with these older college students. I quote from the ebook, “If you take time to construct that relationship, something is feasible. You possibly can’t drive college students to study, however you’ll be able to create an area the place they need to.”
00:09:27 Hallie: So this is a pleasant reminder, guys. In the event you love this episode and also you need extra actual life tales, sensible instruments, prepared use actions and methods that you should utilize tomorrow, the subsequent day, and have a spot the place you’ll be able to preserve this ebook available once you want it most, that is all issues I share in chapter seven of Secondary SLP Roadmap. It is filled with simply that. Mark your calendar. It launches November eleventh. I’m going into extra in depth on this. If you have not checked out the opposite two earlier bonus episodes on that, achieve this as effectively so you’ll be able to study extra about some issues that you may study within the ebook.
00:10:02 Hallie: However within the ebook, I additionally go into working with blended teams, adapting supplies for utilizing, engaged on a couple of purpose with one exercise, easy methods to concentrate on connection over knowledge assortment, easy methods to write objectives, easy methods to educate the abilities, easy methods to work on articulation and social expertise and life expertise, and all these issues with older speech college students so that they are motivated, prepared to take dangers, and naturally, make tons and tons of progress.
00:10:29 Hallie: Alright, this is a bonus joke as at all times. Why did the scholar convey a ladder to highschool? As a result of they have been going to highschool. Thanks a lot for tuning in once more for this third bonus episode. Hold connecting, preserve exhibiting up, and bear in mind, rapport is an additional. It’s all the things. And till subsequent week, everybody, or till the subsequent episode, I preserve forgetting this isn’t an everyday episode – keep out of bother.
00:11:00 Hallie: Thanks a lot for tuning in to a different episode of SLP Espresso Discuss. It means the world to me that you just’re tuning in each week and getting the jolt of inspiration you want. You’ll find all the hyperlinks and data talked about on this episode at my web site, speechtimefun.com. Do not forget to comply with the present so you do not miss any future episodes. And when you’re there, it could imply the world to me when you would take a number of seconds and go away me an trustworthy assessment. See you subsequent week with one other episode stuffed with enjoyable and inspiration from one SLP to a different. Have enjoyable, guys.
00:11:42 Hallie: Hey there SLP, I’ve a fast query for you. What when you might have only one ebook in your shelf that truly will get the challenges of working with center faculty and highschool college students? Effectively, it is right here. Effectively, truly the pre-order is right here, however hey, I am so excited to let you recognize that my model new ebook, The Secondary SLP Information, is obtainable for pre-order. And once you pre-order, you get an unique bonus that you just will not wanna miss.
00:12:12 Hallie: It’s filled with actual discuss methods, fast suggestions and inspiration that you should utilize along with your center faculty and highschool college students all yr lengthy. That is the right ebook for a ebook membership, a grad scholar group, or simply flipping by means of once you’re caught and in a IEP writing spiral. So head to speechtimefun.com/preorder or head to my Instagram and ship me a DM with the phrase pre-order and I’ll ship you the hyperlink so you’ll be able to pre-order now. And I can’t wait so that you can get your fingers on this ebook in November however the sooner you seize it the higher the bonus.
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